If you're going through a divorce, this is a great time to aim your resolutions towards a whole-new you. New Year's resolutions let you focus on yourself. Going through a divorce can be stressful. Now's the time to make some positive changes in your life. Here are three new years resolutions you can make that will help you redefine yourself after your divorce.

Learn a New Skill

Whether you're leaving your marriage with a secure career, or you've been a stay-at-home parent throughout your marriage, learning a new skill is the perfect way to start the new year. If you're secure in your career, you can take classes to advance that career. If you've been a stay-at-home parent, you can go back to school to increase your marketability, and help you secure a new job. Not only that, but getting out and going to school will expand your social circle, improve your networking skills, and teach you something new that you can add to your resume.

Focus on Personal Growth

Divorce can leave you with emotional scars that can interfere with your self-esteem, and personal growth. It can also lead to insomnia and a loss of appetite. While you're dealing with the details of your divorce settlement, don't forget to spend some time focusing on your personal growth. That can include joining a divorce support group, or seeking out a counselor to help you through the emotional problems you may be facing as a result of your divorce.

Aim for Financial Success

Now that you're responsible for you own bills, it's time to focus on your financial success. The first thing you should do is sit down with an accountant. Your accountant can help you create a realistic budget that will allow you to save for a rainy day, make sound investments, and prepare for your taxes. During this time, it's a good idea to gather all your financial documents, including copies of previous years tax returns, current pay records, and bank statements. If you're having a difficult time securing those documents from your spouse, you should talk to your attorney. They can help you get copies of your marital financial records.

Now that you're going through a divorce, it's time to focus on yourself. Use the tips provided here to make New Year's resolutions that will help you make the positive changes you'll need to lead a successful life post-divorce. For more information, contact a firm such as Kleveland Law.